- Published on Wednesday, 05 March 2014 19:59
- Written by Aashwin
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I have always tried finding love in every relation, be it family, friends or anyone that matter. I used to feel that it is love that binds us all together as one, irrespective of the materialistic things we look up to. I have been in relationships, i have been in love. Yes, i have been in love, for once in my life of 21 years. I fell in love with a man i knew from the very first day could not be with me forever. He was 6yrs older than me. Living in a fairytale, i thought i got my Prince Charming. I was that innocent back then, unknown to the fact that there are things that effect being in love with someone. I was studying and he was already working. We were in love but here in India, there is a concept of arranged marriage and his parents were about to get him married in a year or two.
I was aware of this fact, but still wanted to be with him. We were deeply in love with each other. But then again when you are happy time flies. One and a half year later i had to move and he got married. I still love him, but i have moved on somehow. I know he still loves me too. But i need an answer to this question, which always comes to my mind. Separations are always painful, being well aware of that fact i chose to be with him anyways. Just to be with him for a while, i was ready to take the ever lasting pain of separation. Was that stupid of me? Should i not have done that? Should i have thought before falling in love? How is that even possible?
Since then Juliet, I have never felt anything like that for anyone else. I am 21, back then i was 17! It has been four years, i have met people, i have met people who fell in love with me madly, but i have never felt THAT love ever again... I am starting to believe i would never be able to. Now these are the times when i think i shouldnt have been into relationship with him knowing that we wont be together. I need answer, whether i did the right thing or not. Please help me put out of my misery, Juliet!!
I want to feel that love again...!!
With lots of hope
P.S.: I think you are doing great job, keep up this good work.
- Published on Tuesday, 18 February 2014 22:06
- Written by Otra Julieta Enamorada
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Mi nombre es Julieta, espera 15 Jahr y enamorada Estoy, POR Primera Vez Enamorada Estoy de Verdad, no, o quiero NADIE QUIEN para ACUDIR, y Por Eso PORQUE Admiro usted Fuerza de Voluntad vos te Escribo a Julieta.
Me enamore de el novio de mi mejor amiga, y lo amo de Verdad, es mi mejor amigo, y de como decirselo nariz o decirselo o no, una gran persona, me Demuestra afecto muchisimo, entrada bien conmigo, me Hace Reir, Siempre y párr ahi esta acompañarme, Pero No Puedo decirselo la haria DAÑO del mucho a mi amiga, n ose de Verdad Que HACER y lloro lo amo, sufro porción sin servicio Poder yo Quien de Todos los dias el amo presa te, o Que Es El Amor de mi vida, me encantaria abrazarlo, no sólo con Palabras y demostrarle con Hechos Lo Que Siento Por El, crear deverdad me enamore Que, PORQUE Nunca sienta Por Esto COMO Alguien Lo Que Siento Por El, es muy lindo Conmigo Siempre me MUCHO cariño, pero si usted es serio digo Que crea un gran problema,
Sigo perdiendo miedode Julieta, y no sólo de peso, perder gran amistad Que ESA amiga guardo conmigo, puedo crear y Eso que el tambien decirle arruinaria Nuestra amistad, Que Temor el Que es abrazarte si lo haces digo no me Chávez Quiera volver a Hablar Nunca Más, Pero Mucho sufro quedandome en silencio, ademas TODAS las Cosas Que veo le dice a mi amiga, de Me amor, Que Es El Amor de do vida, QUIERE Que estafa Estar ella Toda la vida, y me duele Mucho Mas Que sable Decir ESO Nunca me vaya a mí, y sable Que No soy ESA persona especial párr EL, HACER Que nariz, el corazon espera Partido, sin Parar sí puedo de llorar Por El, Nunca Alguien ame tanto.
Usted Admiro Julieta, de la cereza
Otra Julieta enamorada.
- Published on Tuesday, 18 February 2014 06:36
- Written by Abigail
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I am 16 and I cannot stop thinking of someone. His name is Justin. In the almost seven months that we dated I broke up with him two times. We are not dating now but we are friends. However, it is awkward when we hang out. I broke up with him because I feel like I know he isn't the man I'm going to marry, but what do I know. I have friends who wonder why I even dated him in the first place. That is because he is not so tall, is over weight, and a little bit dorky. Someone even asked me if I got back together with him the first time because I felt guilty. I guess the true reason was because I felt like he needed me. He wants to be a musician and that is a career that is hard to keep food on the table with. I always joked with him that I better not end up living in a box. However, now I feel like I need him. That is because he is so kind and loving. He is the sweetest guy, he takes care of me, and I love his family. I honestly don't see him as short and over weight. I see him as my teddy bear. To be truthful... the last time we hung out, we kissed and it felt right. He was my first kiss. It brought back memories of how much I loved him. Since he kissed me I guess that means he is still in love with me but I'm not sure. The downside is that everyone thinks I can do better than him. My mom is set on my dating this guy named David. He is tall, handsome, musical, athletic, and Godly. The problem with him is that he lives so far away and he is honestly too perfect. Also, I have broken up with Justin twice. What is to say that I won't again? I am scared that I'll hurt him. If he is who I am supposed to marry, I'm only 16. That means that I have something like 8 more years to break his heart. I don't know what I should do. He has a piece of my heart but the question is to deny it or not.
- Published on Monday, 17 February 2014 00:03
- Written by What If
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I am a 15 year old girl. I know it seems silly to be asking what love is at such a young age. I should be going out and having fun but instead I'm stuck trying to get over a guy who never really cared. When I met him, he was much the gentleman. We would talk everyday and he would come up to me each day after school just to say hi. Then one day everything just stopped. He stopped talking to me and saying hi. I felt so used and alone. That was when I realized that I had fallen for him without even realizing it. I now feel heartbroken and don't know what to do. Am I just crazy? How do I get over a guy that was never mine?
- Published on Friday, 14 February 2014 03:04
- Written by R.
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I love him, Juliet. I really do. I wouldn't be writing if I wasn't head over heels for this guy. I'm 18 and from the U.S.
Juliet, I've been with him for almost 2 years, and my parents are completely unaware of this relationship. My brother, however, knows and he could not disapprove anymore than he already does. He didn't get off to a good start with my love. So he does not approve of our love. I know, I'm young, but if this isn't love, than I don't know what is.
Why is it always so hard? I thought, when you're in love that things just fall into place, do they not?
For the past year and half my brother has forbid us to meet, he thinks that if he lets us have our relationship through the phone and have restrictions that we'd give up. But lately, we've been meeting up secretly. And I know for sure that there's no other man I'd rather be with.
We're seriously, passionately, hopelessly and truly in love. We've talked about marriage, and about running away on many occasions, but we're only college students. He has a job, but I don't, and we both couldn't imagine hurting our families by running away.. So if we care so much about hurting them, then why can't they support our love?
I thought love was easy, that things would work if it was true love.. I know it's true love, so how much longer do I have to wait before all is right?
Much Love, R.
- Published on Tuesday, 11 February 2014 00:40
- Written by M Juliet
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I am not exactly sure why I am writing this letter. Maybe, I am looking for reassurance of my beliefs and values. Maybe, I am looking for closure to past unfulfilled relationships. Maybe, I am trying to regain hope for the future. Maybe, for a little excitement mixed with some catharsis during these long winter months. Whatever the reason, I would just like to share my heartfelt thoughts and feelings on life and love with someone with a fresh perspective and no prejudgments or biases. What better way than with a complete stranger.
Who am I? I am a hopeless romantic and philosopher. One that believes in an eternal love that only comes once in a lifetime. A love that is so pure, innocent, giving, and complete that it reaffirms the purpose to our existence on this planet. I am a cultured, chivalrous gentleman from a bygone era, a white knight in shining armour. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I have yet to find my lady fair. I have tried all the customary sources: work, church, grocery store, gyms, hobbies, friends, dating sites, et al.; tried to better myself: worked out – became physically fit, went back to school, traveled the world, explored and developed new hobbies; stopped obsessing over the uncontrollable; all with the same results. Given my advancing age (42 years) and rapidly developing cynicism/bitterness with humanity, I am starting to doubt my true love’s existence.
Was she merely a figment of my imagination? Designed by Hollywood movie magic; shaped by modern culture, marketing campaigns, friends and family; distorted by past failed relationships to the point of no recognition? Maybe, it is I who has changed to the point of no recognition? Maybe, it is I who has lost his way and can no longer be found? Maybe, during my search, I have distanced myself from her? Funny, I don’t look any different, think any different, or feel any different. Yet, I can’t help shake this thought that I was meant to wander this world alone with no one to share life’s great mysteries and joys. Maybe, I have already met her? However, through my weakness/frailty or shallowness, I have dismissed her. Have my ideals been so inflexible that they have cost me life’s ultimate happiness? Or, are my ideals so idyllic that reality can never match them?
- Published on Sunday, 09 February 2014 18:00
- Written by Maya-Alexandra Grace
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Before I begin let me thank you. It seems you've been a company to me and you never even knew it. I'm sorry I didn't write sooner, but I'm writing now and I hope you'll be a good listening ear.
Although I am only 15 I feel I am truly in love for the first time. This boy, or man maybe, is perfect to and for me. The only issue with our relationship is his desire not to live any longer. I know that I am the only thing keeping his heart beating and I'm worried that one day, when I'm not there, he'll do more than just make himself bleed.
So I ask for you to help me bring his will to live back to life, by any means possible.
Love, a friend.